After years of chastity play, my wife has evolved. I have seen her move through 3 stages of commitment.
Stage 1 – She humors me and we play with short term locks. She is mainly doing it for me. If I want to quit, she’s fine with that.
Stage 2 – She enjoys the benefits and starts wanting longer locks. It’s still just a way to spice things up in our marriage. If I want to take a break for a while, she allows it.
Stage 3 – She is all in. Locks are now months long. She views regular sex as me going down on her. She wants 3 or 4 orgasms a week. I can only expect 3 to 4 orgasms a year. Taking a break is off the table now. Aside from destroying the cage to remove it, I am in permanent chastity.
